A Humble Man: A Positive India

Every day brings a new kind of experience and insight. Some days ago I met a man who left a deep impression on my mind. He was in his fifties with hollow eyes and cheeks. His structure was bony and reminded me one of the characters from great Hindi novelist Premchand's novels. Yes, he is a daily wages laborer working almost 12 hours a day and earns around Rs. 250-300 per day. But one thing differentiates him from other people is his positive will and conviction.

He has four sons in his native village nearby Basti district of Uttar Pradesh. All his sons are studying and he is the sole bread earner of his family. In one hour conversation he kept saying that he has only one desire left and that is his children must study and fulfill their dreams. As long as I am alive I will make sure from whatever meager income I have I will support them, he said firmly. His conviction to provide the best of studies he can for his children is rare.

He made a promise to himself long time back to send some amount of money regularly to his family and he is still doing this religiously with a dream in his deep hollow eyes that the hardship he is facing his children must not confront. They must do better in life. Though he is a content man but one thing pinches him continuously. The on going price rise has made his life nowadays a little difficult. Instead of taking a city bus to commute he started to walk for six kilometers daily to save money. But he is not able to save much for his family. And his struggle for better life continues...

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  1. farheen6 April 2012 at 18:16

    may his children do him proud. and may govt do sumthng to save such ppl from 'mehngayi daayan'

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  2. Bhavana6 April 2012 at 21:09

    Premchand's novels have tragic characters...your positive man has that tinge of pain and irony...write more on such people will you?

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  3. Kajal8 April 2012 at 08:19

    Aww.. really really a humble man..loved reading it.
    Glad to have found you at iNdiblogger. YOur newest follower and a regular visitor now.
    cheers
    Kajal

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  4. The Poet8 April 2012 at 08:33

    Hello.
    Growing up in Trinidad in an extended family, my dad (now deceased) was the only breadwinner. He was not an educated man and worked long hours travelling the streets selling his goods. Sometimes he would not make a single penny & would come home tired and agitated. I think the stress of finding money to buy food to feed the family everyday added to his health problems and eventually led to his death.

    I hope the children of this humble man understand the sacrifices he has made/is making to give them a good education and that they strive to succeed in order to do him proud.

    Nice write-up Rajnish. Thanks for sharing & visiting.

    Day 7: Golden Sand

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  5. Akshay Kumar G14 April 2012 at 15:36

    With such great will power and conviction, I am sure nothing will hinder the spirits of that man to provide good education to his children. Very nice write-up, Rajneesh :)

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  6. Rajnish18 April 2012 at 11:16

    Thanks Farheen, Bhavna, Kajal, Andy David & Akshay for liking this post & thank you all for your really wonderful and positive comments...

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  7. Mak18 April 2012 at 11:29

    It is these kind of people who make their children live the dreams. I hope and wish his dreams come alive.
    Good that you mentioned this Rajnish.

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  8. Anonymous24 April 2012 at 21:10

    Amazing! reminds me of one such incident when I was selling insurance! gives me a thought, Why dont I post it on my page? let me work on that.. :)

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